Oh, I’m thrilled to show off this fantastic idea for a truly unique wedding invitation idea – a Save the Date card that simply oozes Hollywood Chic! Movie buffs everywhere will love this super stylish idea from husband and wife photographers, Michelle Ferry and Josh Beller of Mi Belle in the USA. Samantha and Shane, the bride and groom, had these photos specially commisioned by their wedding photographers, Mi Belle to go the extra mile and completely set the mood for a fabulous celebration. In case you think that the name of the bride and groom have been superimposed, think again – they actually had the movie sign custom set to announce their date! Now that’s what I call going the extra mile for your wedding invitations …. Simply fabulous!
Well if you have the time and the creative flair, why not make your own video wedding invitation? This could be also be used as a fun addition to your main paper invitation. We just LOVE this video of Josh and Amy’s wedding invitation ♥!
Whatever your style of wedding stationery, you want to get your invitation word perfect. Like the rest of your wedding stationery, the wording on the invitations should reflect the overall style of your special day. Before deciding how you to word your invitation, you should to decide on the style of the wedding and the invitation itself. Typically, the more formal your wedding, the more formal the invitation should be. Increasingly, many brides are opting for more informal and modern ceremonies , rather than classic and traditional which means that the wording of the invitation is no longer held up to such strict rules of etiquette. Ultimately, the wording of the invitation is about what you want rather than what you think should be written so don’t be afraid to experiment with different wording styles! Our guide below will give you some ideas to get you started.
The number one rule for formal invitations, if you are sticking to convention, is that that invitations are written in the third person, referring to the hosts of the reception using their full names. There are no strict rules of etiquette but here are some guidelines to remember as a general rule (just remember simplicity and clarity are the most important considerations):
Here are some things to remember when you’re composing a formal invitation:
Write out names in full, including middle names – do not write names as initials
Spell out all words, including the hour, the date and the year. Spell out all words in the address, including Street, Road and Avenue. The two exceptions to this rule in an address are Saint (St.) and Mount (Mt.)
Use Roman numerals in names, rather than “the second” or “2nd.”
If the wedding is not going to be at a house of worship, then the phrase ‘honour of your presence’ should be replaced by ‘pleasure of your company’.
When a Roman Catholic mass is part of the ceremony, invitations may include the phrase “and your participation in the offering of the Nuptial Mass” on a separate line below the groom’s name
Etiquette says that the bride should be listed first before the groom, using first and middle names only. Then the groom should be listed, using both title and middle name.
There is no punctuation except after abbreviations (Mr., Mrs.,) and when sentences requiring commas appear in one line (“on Saturday, the ninth of July”)
Numbers in the street address mentioned on the invitation are written in numerals eg) “323 Windsor Street”. But when there is just one number, it is spelled out: “Thirty Windsor Street”.
Half hours are written as “half after four o’clock” not “half past four” or “four thirty”
Formal invitations should be printed on formal heavyweight paper. Ivory, cream, and white are accepted colours for formal invitations. Classic font types, such as Roman, printed or engraved in black are traditionally used.
There are two main styles to the traditional wedding invitation. The first leaves room for the guests‘ name to be hand written in full in the top left hand corner.
(with bride’s parents hosting the wedding)
The second type of invitation includes the names of the guests in the wording:
For slightly less formal weddings you may wish to leave out Mr and Mrs and other titles and write the date and time in numbers rather than words. You can also print the invitation in coloured ink rather than black with modern fonts and add printed designs to the invitation. For very informal weddings, particularly those being hosted by the bridal couple, the wording and style of the invitation can be as creative as you wish – the only limit is your imagination!
You may also wish to add your personal wedding website address and your email address to the invitation. Many couples are now choosing to complement their wedding invitations with their own custom-built wedding website. A wedding ‘wedsite’ is a great way to keep your wedding guests up to date with all of your wedding arrangements and you can also put your wedding photos online after your wedding for all to enjoy!
Here are some examples of informal wedding invitations to get you started: